10 Days in the Fruit of the Spirit {Day 2 ~ Love}

Well hello there!  Y'all... I am amazed at the responses and feedback from Day 1 of the Fruits of the Spirit study!  Welcome to Day 2!  I'm so excited you are here!  

Before we get started, I'd love to share a little background on this study.  Little Man and I were consistently doing some Bible time at night before he went to bed.  However, what I noticed was that he was tired and cranky and it sometimes felt forced.  I want our time with God to be amazing and beautiful and wonderful!  It should never be forced or a chore.  I don't ever want our time with God to be a negative thing.  I'm sure you could agree.  Fast forward to the past few weeks.  At the beginning of the summer, I was teaching some remediation courses (I teach online from home).  I had a one hour break at 10:00.  This is when Little Man and I got to sit down and chat over breakfast.  We slowly started incorporating our devotionals from church into this time.  I had been working on putting this study together since last summer.  I couldn't seem to get my head wrapped around exactly what I wanted to do.  (Note to self: God gives you the words when you ask.  Funny how He does that...).  So with that, Breakfast with the Bible was born!  We still review our memory verses (look for a post soon on our process for that), talk, and say prayers at night, but our more in-depth studies happen at breakfast now.  I have loved it and Little Man does too.  I look forward to watching the process evolve as Baby Boy gets a little older.  I loved putting this together and look forward to doing several more.  I trust that all of you will help me stick to that!  :)

Here's how the Fruits of the Spirit study works.  First, get some breakfast.  Not going to lie... in our house, cereal seems to be the go-to.  Then, get comfy at the table and get to work!  This is a basic outline of what we did each day.  I'll go into detail about each of these in the separate posts.

While we were eating, I had Little Man watch two YouTube videos.  One is a song that we watched each day.  The other is a great series by a man called Hi Hi the Bible Guy.  He is fantastic!  He does objects lessons for everything and he does them big!  I'm talking fire, explosions, power tools, all of it.  Total boy stuff.  

After the videos, we would review the page in the story for that particular fruit and give him the descriptive phrase.  I'll go into that more later.  I would then read our verse of the day.  We would talk about it and I would guide him to make the connection between the verse and the fruit.  This was just conversation over breakfast.  In all of our talks, I tried to be very intentional about relating the fruit directly to Little Man.  We talked about things he specifically did or didn't do.  I made him come up with examples of how he could demonstrate the fruit.  All in all, they were good talks.  

After we finished eating, we would do an object lesson.  He LOVED these!  After the lesson, we would go back to our verse of the day and add our final thoughts.  If you have a child that is old enough, this would be a great time to journal.  Little Man isn't quite there yet.  I'm hoping after a few more units he will be.  

As we closed our lesson, we would pray over the verse, using our names to pray it specifically for us.  Finally, as an extension, he would work on the stained glass cutouts.  These were discussed in the Day 1 post.  If you missed it, you can get caught up here.  This was the time I would usually clean up breakfast.  Sometimes, he'd let me continue the conversation.  Other times, he felt he was all talked out.  If you really want to extend it, have them watch a Veggie Tales episode while they're doing the stained glass and point out examples of the fruits in the characters.  

And that's that!  I know it sounds like a lot, but it really isn't.  Eat, video, verse, chat, object lesson, pray, extension.  Maybe 20 minutes?  

So with all that said... here's the next lesson in our Fruits of the Spirit study!  The first fruit is love.  Honestly, this was a little tricky.  The story we read daily, Pups of the Spirit, is super cute, but it keeps love at a surface level.  Hugs and kisses and whatnot.  I wanted Little Man to know that love in the Biblical sense is deeper than that.  With every fruit, I found a short phrase that describes it in ways our little ones would understand.  

LOVE ~ I will put others first.

Our verse for love was 1 John 3:18.

Dear children, let us not love with words or speech, but with actions and in truth.

I asked some pretty basic questions.  How do you know Mommy loves you?  How do you show Mommy or Daddy how you love them?  How can you show your friends you love them?  I asked him about some specific situations we had recently dealt with... were you showing love then?  I read somewhere that whenever a certain mom saw her children arguing, she would stop them and ask, "Who are you showing love to right now?  Yourself, your brother, or God?  God first, then others, and then ourselves.  This is the primary point I wanted Little Man to leave with.  

We've talked about how we love others because Jesus loves us and His love overflows from us into others.  When we are filled with His love, it's much easier to put others before ourselves.  That led us to our object lesson.

For this lesson, you'll need a paper towel, a red marker, a pen, and a bowl of water.  Draw a small heart down at the bottom with the pen.  "We all have hearts that need to be filled.  When we ask Jesus to live in our hearts, he fills them with love."

We colored in the heart with the red marker.  "Jesus lives in our hearts and He loves us very, very much.  We always know that we are loved because we are His children."

Draw some tiny little hearts around the top of the red heart.  "We have Jesus' love in our hearts, but not everyone knows about His love.  They're hearts are still empty."

I asked Little Man how we could show love to those people.  He gave me answers like playing with them, being kind to them, telling them that Jesus lives in us.  "When Jesus loves us, that love can overflow into the people around us!  Because He loves us soooo much, we have lots of love to share!"  Dip the paper towel into the bowl where just the red heart touches the water.  

"Look how Jesus' love filled all those other hearts!  He loves everyone and wants their hearts to be filled too!"

Throughout the next several days, I focused on asking Little Man about showing love.  In the grocery store, a man knocked some stuff off the shelf...  "How can we show him some love right now?"  As Little Man had a *teensy* bit of an attitude with me... "Are you showing love right now or anger?"  Some friends were over and playing at our house and wanted to do something different than Little Man... "Can we show him love by choosing to play his game first?"  I'm sure you can think of a few (or more than a few) moments that these questions could be asked on a daily basis.  

To conclude our Breakfast with the Bible time, we prayed over our verse (using the "ACTS" model and the words from the verse) and Little Man began to work on his torn paper stained glass.  

"Jesus, it's awesome that You have so much love for us!  I'm sorry that I didn't show love when I ______.  Please forgive me.  Thank you for always loving us no matter what we do.  Please help me not to just tell my family I love them, but to show them with my actions.  Help me to know how to love people that aren't my friends.  Help me to show them Your love.  Amen."

So there's Day 2!  I know I talked A LOT during this post.  I wanted to give some background though. I promise not to ramble so much next time!  :)  I'd love to hear your thoughts about this study!  Is this something you could do with your little ones?  

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A Bad Case of Stripes {Biblical Extension Activities}

It's Wednesday, so it's time to share another installment of "What We're Reading Wednesday!"  Today I have an old favorite.  Little Man went through a phase when he asked for this story every single night.  It's a good one though, with a great message, so I'm glad he enjoyed it!

Camilla Cream loves lima beans, but she knows her friends don't.  She tries to hide the fact that she likes them because she doesn't want them to laugh at her.  :(  What happens when we worry too much about what other people think of us?  Camilla had to find out the hard way!

After the story, we had a short discussion about why we are special.  Little Man went straight the answer I wanted to hear.  "Because God make us special, Mommy!"  Exactly.  I asked him how Camilla was special.  She likes lima beans.  She has curly hair.  She's an only child.  All of it works.  Then, I asked him (if Camilla was a real person), would God have given her all these special qualities.  Of course.  So what special qualities did God give us?  Prepare yourself to hear some super cute responses from your little one!  :)

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.  

Psalm 139:14

For our extension activity, we gave ourselves stripes!  Instead of painting our faces (which could have been lots of fun), we made our stripes on paper.  I asked Little Man to help me come up with ways that God made everyone in our family special.  I loved his responses!  Considering one for his brother, Baby Boy, is "spit-up machine" (something he genuinely says almost nightly during prayers now), I wonder if I should have asked him about the dogs.  I can only begin to imagine the things he would have said!  I ended up hanging the boys' stripes on the bathroom mirror next to the memory verse (dry erase marker).  As we get ready each morning, I hope to have a quick chat about other things that make us special.  

We also tried making 3D hand tracings, but it was a little too difficult for Little Man.  He ended up losing interest pretty quickly, so I didn't force it.  If you have a patient one, I do encourage trying it.  Some great conversations about uniqueness could come from it!  

I also had an idea after we finished our activity that I might try in the future.  If I do, I'll add it to this page!  We could have easily made acrostic poems using our names and special words to describe ourselves.  If you want a literacy tie-in, there you go!  :)  

Tell me, have you read this book?  What extension activities have you tried?

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10 Days in the Fruits of the Spirit {An Overview}

It's here!  It's here!  It's here!!!  If you have known me for any amount of time, you know that I've been talking about this Fruits of the Spirit study for a loooong time.  Well, we have finally finished it and I'm ready to share it with all of you lovelies!  

So, this endeavor turned out to be a 10-day unit stretched out over, what... 2 months?  We had some great fun and we had some really great Breakfast with the Bible conversations, but this particular study took some time.  

We started the study by reading Pups of the Spirit!  It's a super cute story about nine adorable little puppies that each represent one of the fruits.  I loved that the wording in the descriptions were really kid-friendly.  Even our youngest little ones would be able to understand what these fruits really mean!  Go get this book... now.  Read it often with your littles.  After we read it, I bought some little colorful fuzzy balls (fruits) and a tiny burlap basket.  Whenever I saw Little Man displaying one of the fruits, I would let him put a fruit in his basket.  Each day, we would discuss the day's particular fruit and give examples of what it would look like in our daily lives.  Little ones come up with the most clever things!

I'm getting ahead of myself.  On the first day, after we read the story, I gave Little Man a bunch of construction paper circles with "fruits" on them.  There were obviously the nine fruits.  Galatians 5:21 lists some negative fruits.  I used some of those, but I also added some that I specifically have to talk about regularly.  Customize this to your little one!  By giving him some specific behaviors that we've seen in him, it gave him the chance to talk about them and have to decide whether it was good or bad.

At this point, we read the memory verse for the unit.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.  Against such things there is no law.

Galatians 5:22-23

Each day, we would revisit this verse.  Several times throughout the unit, I would have him play a game to practice.  I also wrote it on his mirror with a dry erase marker.  We go over it every morning as he brushes his teeth and hair.  (Side note:  I tried using a Vis-a-Vis marker.  This didn't work.  The steam from the shower made it smear.)  

Each day, at the end of our Bible time, Little Man would create one of these torn-paper creations.  I just printed off an outline of the fruit and attached it to a piece of clear contact paper.  The stickiness acted as a glue.  He would tear the construction paper and fill it in.  Then, I topped it with another sheet to seal it.  We displayed them on the fireplace mantle so they were visible each day.  After the fact, I thought they would also be really neat with tissue paper hung in a window... stained glass style.

As he was tearing his paper, I took a second copy of the fruit and colored it with markers.  I used the contact paper to "laminate" it, and then I punched holes around the edge.  I tossed them all in a bag with some round shoelaces and there was a busy bag!  See the heading picture for an example.  I got a little mixed up as I was taking pictures and editing them.  I forgot to take a separate one, but I'm pretty sure you get the idea!

So there you go!  Day 1 of Fruits of the Spirit!  Be sure to follow us to get in-depth descriptions of each of the days in the unit!  This was so much fun and I can't wait to start the next one!

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